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		By: VIJAY GUPTA		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[VIJAY GUPTA]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[a person who has moved his &quot;home&quot; from One country to another country goes through
many phases before ACCULTURATION to &quot;new society &quot; or country is accomplished:
Home sickness, Alienation, lonliness, happy memories and even comfortable life left behind
can lead to a SPECTRUM of moods, behavior outcomes described by the writer.

The best strategy is to THINK like the natives or like they say -&quot;In ROME, act and behave like
the ROMANS&quot;  .This does not imply that you GIVE UP your strong beliefs , customs or values.. but to feel at home , one must start LOOKING at things like the natives do, even if
you disagree . 
Get to know the natives, interact with them and appreciate their world view-easily said
then accomplished.
Keep in mind - YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE  - ( I don;t remember who said it, may be
RUMI or Tagore or even Deepak) but one can feel  like home if you change your
ATTITUDE ( a shift in your LATITUDE AND ATTITUDE) about where you happen to be.
People everywhere  have more in COMMON than not! don&#039;t  you think so.
Diversity is  to be appreciated even when we are almost the same ( i.e. HUMANS
with similar NEEDS and Tendencies)
Get into the CULTURE of where you are ( like art,music, dance, food, sights , religion
and language).Most of all &quot;see the people  in new light&quot; and try to appreciate the
surroundings you are in.
It takes TIME.. acculturation is a slow process but the final outcome is a peaceful,
loving feeling that you will feel , &quot; AT HOME&quot; . one again , you are where you are
Hope  you like the thoughts expressed here.
Best of luck to you]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>a person who has moved his &#8220;home&#8221; from One country to another country goes through<br />
many phases before ACCULTURATION to &#8220;new society &#8221; or country is accomplished:<br />
Home sickness, Alienation, lonliness, happy memories and even comfortable life left behind<br />
can lead to a SPECTRUM of moods, behavior outcomes described by the writer.</p>
<p>The best strategy is to THINK like the natives or like they say -&#8220;In ROME, act and behave like<br />
the ROMANS&#8221;  .This does not imply that you GIVE UP your strong beliefs , customs or values.. but to feel at home , one must start LOOKING at things like the natives do, even if<br />
you disagree .<br />
Get to know the natives, interact with them and appreciate their world view-easily said<br />
then accomplished.<br />
Keep in mind &#8211; YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE  &#8211; ( I don;t remember who said it, may be<br />
RUMI or Tagore or even Deepak) but one can feel  like home if you change your<br />
ATTITUDE ( a shift in your LATITUDE AND ATTITUDE) about where you happen to be.<br />
People everywhere  have more in COMMON than not! don&#8217;t  you think so.<br />
Diversity is  to be appreciated even when we are almost the same ( i.e. HUMANS<br />
with similar NEEDS and Tendencies)<br />
Get into the CULTURE of where you are ( like art,music, dance, food, sights , religion<br />
and language).Most of all &#8220;see the people  in new light&#8221; and try to appreciate the<br />
surroundings you are in.<br />
It takes TIME.. acculturation is a slow process but the final outcome is a peaceful,<br />
loving feeling that you will feel , &#8221; AT HOME&#8221; . one again , you are where you are<br />
Hope  you like the thoughts expressed here.<br />
Best of luck to you</p>
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		By: Charlane Braddy		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-adjusting-to-a-foreign-country/#comment-4409</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Charlane Braddy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 03:34:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you both for writing about this topic. I have been living in a new country and this is very helpful.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you both for writing about this topic. I have been living in a new country and this is very helpful.</p>
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