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		By: Gary D		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4151</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gary D]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 13:29:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks John.  The boys in blue aren&#039;t much use in minor mischief
situations.  They &quot;need to know &quot; to help people with closure.  I honestly
feel that it was a random act and the timing was a message to stay more present.
I can&#039;t catch the window smasher, I have no way of knowing why it happened, the when
is Wednesday night or Thursday day.  The vacuum and faith that it was a random act is
my best bet for not sacrificing a future day stressing about a past one.  It is tricky to 
find that balance on so many levels.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks John.  The boys in blue aren&#8217;t much use in minor mischief<br />
situations.  They &#8220;need to know &#8221; to help people with closure.  I honestly<br />
feel that it was a random act and the timing was a message to stay more present.<br />
I can&#8217;t catch the window smasher, I have no way of knowing why it happened, the when<br />
is Wednesday night or Thursday day.  The vacuum and faith that it was a random act is<br />
my best bet for not sacrificing a future day stressing about a past one.  It is tricky to<br />
find that balance on so many levels.</p>
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		By: webster		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4150</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[webster]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 11:22:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Silence is not an absence of sound 
but rather a shifting of attention towards
sounds that speak to the soul. Which
would be nearer the experience when 
taking a vow of silence...

Wind in the trees,
Thunder,
Flowing water,
Falling leaves,
Rain,
Animal voices,
Pine needles crunching under foot,
The song of the first bird, just before 
dawn...

We live our lives amid a teeming soul-
dance of natural sounds.....

In silence we may feel our heart beat,
hear our mantra, taste the subtle nuance 
of a tomato, or catch a scent of lilac &#039;round 
the next corner- while walking your peace.....

Then, we have the articulately measured,
imagined sounds of art- the multi-faceted 
musics, pen to paper, Adagio in the throes 
of a dancer on-toe, an artist&#039;s knife-deftly 
moving paint on canvas...

There is a &#039;fullness&#039; in the polyphony of sound,
within Silence....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Silence is not an absence of sound<br />
but rather a shifting of attention towards<br />
sounds that speak to the soul. Which<br />
would be nearer the experience when<br />
taking a vow of silence&#8230;</p>
<p>Wind in the trees,<br />
Thunder,<br />
Flowing water,<br />
Falling leaves,<br />
Rain,<br />
Animal voices,<br />
Pine needles crunching under foot,<br />
The song of the first bird, just before<br />
dawn&#8230;</p>
<p>We live our lives amid a teeming soul-<br />
dance of natural sounds&#8230;..</p>
<p>In silence we may feel our heart beat,<br />
hear our mantra, taste the subtle nuance<br />
of a tomato, or catch a scent of lilac &#8217;round<br />
the next corner- while walking your peace&#8230;..</p>
<p>Then, we have the articulately measured,<br />
imagined sounds of art- the multi-faceted<br />
musics, pen to paper, Adagio in the throes<br />
of a dancer on-toe, an artist&#8217;s knife-deftly<br />
moving paint on canvas&#8230;</p>
<p>There is a &#8216;fullness&#8217; in the polyphony of sound,<br />
within Silence&#8230;.</p>
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		By: John		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4149</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 07:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I appreciate your epiphany, Gary. I also admire your desire to move on and up.

However, not caring who, when or why your window was smashed may
just lead to having it smashed again once it has been repaired.

If we all lived in a vacuum, free of evil doers and mischief makers, I think
the on and up theory would be awesome.  Unfortunately, we live in a 
world plagued with bad intentions, which no amount of mediation can make
go away.  Fortunately though, we do have men and women in blue uniforms
who make it their business to learn the who, when and why of miscreants.
I wonder if they get to move on and up as a result of their NEED to know?

No, I&#039;m not being a smarty pants (couldn&#039;t think of a better non-profane term),
I just had to pose the statements in that fashion so that the argument would
make more sense.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I appreciate your epiphany, Gary. I also admire your desire to move on and up.</p>
<p>However, not caring who, when or why your window was smashed may<br />
just lead to having it smashed again once it has been repaired.</p>
<p>If we all lived in a vacuum, free of evil doers and mischief makers, I think<br />
the on and up theory would be awesome.  Unfortunately, we live in a<br />
world plagued with bad intentions, which no amount of mediation can make<br />
go away.  Fortunately though, we do have men and women in blue uniforms<br />
who make it their business to learn the who, when and why of miscreants.<br />
I wonder if they get to move on and up as a result of their NEED to know?</p>
<p>No, I&#8217;m not being a smarty pants (couldn&#8217;t think of a better non-profane term),<br />
I just had to pose the statements in that fashion so that the argument would<br />
make more sense.</p>
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		By: Gary D		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4148</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gary D]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 06:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thud, enlightening moment !!

I have a chapter in my life that has sabotaged me for 3 years.  
The incidents improved my life immensely but scared me so much it 
occupies 30% of my thoughts.  Deepak spoke in Edmonton tonight and
until this post I didn&#039;t know what I was being told.  As I left for the show, my van
window had been smashed in either last night or today.  I nearly didn&#039;t go
to the show.  I nearly didn&#039;t focus while at the show.  When did that window get
smashed ? Why How much will it cost ? etc etc........
I came home and couldn&#039;t really process Deepak because I had been putting off
the broken window stress all evening.
AND THEN IT HIT ME.  I will never know who smashed the window or when.  I do know 
why though - LETTING GO OF THE NEED TO KNOW was my lesson of the day. 
Now I can move on and up :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thud, enlightening moment !!</p>
<p>I have a chapter in my life that has sabotaged me for 3 years.<br />
The incidents improved my life immensely but scared me so much it<br />
occupies 30% of my thoughts.  Deepak spoke in Edmonton tonight and<br />
until this post I didn&#8217;t know what I was being told.  As I left for the show, my van<br />
window had been smashed in either last night or today.  I nearly didn&#8217;t go<br />
to the show.  I nearly didn&#8217;t focus while at the show.  When did that window get<br />
smashed ? Why How much will it cost ? etc etc&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
I came home and couldn&#8217;t really process Deepak because I had been putting off<br />
the broken window stress all evening.<br />
AND THEN IT HIT ME.  I will never know who smashed the window or when.  I do know<br />
why though &#8211; LETTING GO OF THE NEED TO KNOW was my lesson of the day.<br />
Now I can move on and up 🙂</p>
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		By: webster		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4147</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[webster]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:37:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My cats woke me early
today, as they always do...
But this morning was different....

I enjoyed every word...

:)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My cats woke me early<br />
today, as they always do&#8230;<br />
But this morning was different&#8230;.</p>
<p>I enjoyed every word&#8230;</p>
<p>🙂</p>
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		By: mieke		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4146</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mieke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 13:57:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is a speech without illusions but with much hope for the
future on our planet:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BlqLwCKkeY

Listen to it, till the end because it covers all problems that have only
one solution, given in the end :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a speech without illusions but with much hope for the<br />
future on our planet:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BlqLwCKkeY" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BlqLwCKkeY</a></p>
<p>Listen to it, till the end because it covers all problems that have only<br />
one solution, given in the end 🙂</p>
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		By: lilbitbet		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4145</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lilbitbet]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 13:45:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I also have difficulty moving on without knowing why bad things happen.  It&#039;s like a bad movie rerun forever playing in my head.  Some of us just don&#039;t have a teflon nature and stuff gets stuck that takes working hard to scrub off.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also have difficulty moving on without knowing why bad things happen.  It&#8217;s like a bad movie rerun forever playing in my head.  Some of us just don&#8217;t have a teflon nature and stuff gets stuck that takes working hard to scrub off.</p>
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		By: webster		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4144</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[webster]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 12:38:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Caution is a filter... 

But what is the territory?

One must be natural and easy

Feel as one who looks

Then

think as one who walks

with Fullness

Awareness

One&#039;s spontaneity 

will 

Be intuitive]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Caution is a filter&#8230; </p>
<p>But what is the territory?</p>
<p>One must be natural and easy</p>
<p>Feel as one who looks</p>
<p>Then</p>
<p>think as one who walks</p>
<p>with Fullness</p>
<p>Awareness</p>
<p>One&#8217;s spontaneity </p>
<p>will </p>
<p>Be intuitive</p>
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		By: mieke		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4143</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mieke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 11:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Forgot again that there is no wordwrap :

Thank you John for your kind reminder.

Yes it is true to have some caution too.

The thing is I do not have much money, enough to meet my basic needs and
 I found out in the past and up till now that it does not take much money to fulfill 
ones needs.

I make labyrinths in nature that doesn’t cost a penny and find fulfillment in this.

All my life I have received what I needed by just listening to myself and follow 
myself.

Yeah I am not the average girl, I have always been a loner and yet I can 
communicate and commune with people because I listen, I really listen to 
what they have to say.

And in this way I am able to build spontaneous relationships.

But mostly with women, I do agree.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Forgot again that there is no wordwrap :</p>
<p>Thank you John for your kind reminder.</p>
<p>Yes it is true to have some caution too.</p>
<p>The thing is I do not have much money, enough to meet my basic needs and<br />
 I found out in the past and up till now that it does not take much money to fulfill<br />
ones needs.</p>
<p>I make labyrinths in nature that doesn’t cost a penny and find fulfillment in this.</p>
<p>All my life I have received what I needed by just listening to myself and follow<br />
myself.</p>
<p>Yeah I am not the average girl, I have always been a loner and yet I can<br />
communicate and commune with people because I listen, I really listen to<br />
what they have to say.</p>
<p>And in this way I am able to build spontaneous relationships.</p>
<p>But mostly with women, I do agree.</p>
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		By: mieke		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4142</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mieke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 10:57:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you John for your kind reminder.

Yes it is true to have some caution too.

The thing is I do not have much money, enough to meet my basic needs and I found out in the past and up till now that it does not take much money to fulfill ones needs.

I make labyrinths in nature that doesn&#039;t cost a penny and find fulfillment in this.

All my life I have received what I needed by just listening to myself and follow myself.

Yeah I am not the average girl, I have always been a loner and yet I can communicate and commune with people because I listen, I really listen to what  they have to say.

And in this way I am able to build spontaneous relationships.

But mostly with women, I do agree :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you John for your kind reminder.</p>
<p>Yes it is true to have some caution too.</p>
<p>The thing is I do not have much money, enough to meet my basic needs and I found out in the past and up till now that it does not take much money to fulfill ones needs.</p>
<p>I make labyrinths in nature that doesn&#8217;t cost a penny and find fulfillment in this.</p>
<p>All my life I have received what I needed by just listening to myself and follow myself.</p>
<p>Yeah I am not the average girl, I have always been a loner and yet I can communicate and commune with people because I listen, I really listen to what  they have to say.</p>
<p>And in this way I am able to build spontaneous relationships.</p>
<p>But mostly with women, I do agree 🙂</p>
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		By: John		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4141</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 03:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Mieke,

I appreciate your talent with the computer, those labyrinths are beautiful.

And as much as I may enjoy the thought that everyone&#039;s spontaneous actions
might be toward love, laughter and caring, I know that, unfortunately, 
spontaneity does not always foster such kind actions and emotions.

Spontaneity is what encourages us to wave our middle finger toward the guy
who cuts us off in traffic. Spontaneity is what makes us shout explitives
when we stub our toe on our bed post. Spontaneity is the domain of our
base animalistic reactions.  Self control is what makes us take a deep 
breath and realize that the guy must be in a bigger hurry than we are, so we slow
down, and give the guy a little more room, in case &#039;instant Karma&#039; should
come his way and a meteorite should replace his car with a smoking crater. :)

I wish I, and the rest of the people in the world were as beneficient as you
and that we could trust our hearts to always act out of love, laughter and
caring. But, we are a flawed lot, us human beings. And until we all reach
a level of inner peace that allows us to exude peace, love and happiness
every minute of every day, I would caution preaching spontaneity, lest the bum
in the alley you walk past tomorrow feel the spontaneous need to help himself 
to your wallet.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mieke,</p>
<p>I appreciate your talent with the computer, those labyrinths are beautiful.</p>
<p>And as much as I may enjoy the thought that everyone&#8217;s spontaneous actions<br />
might be toward love, laughter and caring, I know that, unfortunately,<br />
spontaneity does not always foster such kind actions and emotions.</p>
<p>Spontaneity is what encourages us to wave our middle finger toward the guy<br />
who cuts us off in traffic. Spontaneity is what makes us shout explitives<br />
when we stub our toe on our bed post. Spontaneity is the domain of our<br />
base animalistic reactions.  Self control is what makes us take a deep<br />
breath and realize that the guy must be in a bigger hurry than we are, so we slow<br />
down, and give the guy a little more room, in case &#8216;instant Karma&#8217; should<br />
come his way and a meteorite should replace his car with a smoking crater. 🙂</p>
<p>I wish I, and the rest of the people in the world were as beneficient as you<br />
and that we could trust our hearts to always act out of love, laughter and<br />
caring. But, we are a flawed lot, us human beings. And until we all reach<br />
a level of inner peace that allows us to exude peace, love and happiness<br />
every minute of every day, I would caution preaching spontaneity, lest the bum<br />
in the alley you walk past tomorrow feel the spontaneous need to help himself<br />
to your wallet.</p>
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		By: mieke		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4140</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mieke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 11:08:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[http://www.heartphone.org/about_labyrinths.htm

This is the gift I received from God in gratitude :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.heartphone.org/about_labyrinths.htm" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.heartphone.org/about_labyrinths.htm</a></p>
<p>This is the gift I received from God in gratitude 🙂</p>
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		By: mieke		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4139</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mieke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi catchme :)

The God who created me gave me one purpose in my life and that is:

Spontaneity, living from my heart.

This is the lesson I learnt in life. And if I live from my heart, my spontaneous actions in every moment in life arise by themselves and are always to the benefit of the other and myself.

I give what I take, I take what I give.

Spontaneous love. laughter and caring.

Wish you this from the bottom of my heart!

No hiding and seeking needed for that :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi catchme 🙂</p>
<p>The God who created me gave me one purpose in my life and that is:</p>
<p>Spontaneity, living from my heart.</p>
<p>This is the lesson I learnt in life. And if I live from my heart, my spontaneous actions in every moment in life arise by themselves and are always to the benefit of the other and myself.</p>
<p>I give what I take, I take what I give.</p>
<p>Spontaneous love. laughter and caring.</p>
<p>Wish you this from the bottom of my heart!</p>
<p>No hiding and seeking needed for that 🙂</p>
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		By: John		</title>
		<link>https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/ask-deepak-letting-go-of-the-need-to-know/#comment-4138</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 06:12:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[HA!  I found a solution!  If there is a message you really want to read,
but the text is all mangled by the text wrap issue, simply click and hold 
at the beginning of the message, drag your cursor to the end of it, release
the left mouse button, press the right mouse button and select COPY...
then right-click on the box at the bottom of the postings, where you would
normally type in a message, and select PASTE....  POOF!  the whole
message appears as if by magic!

:)  I just hated to see all my previous thinking and typing go to waste :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HA!  I found a solution!  If there is a message you really want to read,<br />
but the text is all mangled by the text wrap issue, simply click and hold<br />
at the beginning of the message, drag your cursor to the end of it, release<br />
the left mouse button, press the right mouse button and select COPY&#8230;<br />
then right-click on the box at the bottom of the postings, where you would<br />
normally type in a message, and select PASTE&#8230;.  POOF!  the whole<br />
message appears as if by magic!</p>
<p>🙂  I just hated to see all my previous thinking and typing go to waste 🙂</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 06:09:03 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry to anyone who took the time to try to decypher my posting.<br />
I didn&#8217;t realize the site had a problem with word-wrap not being set<br />
correctly for the text frames.  I promise to be a good little poster and<br />
hit &#8216;enter&#8217; before my lines get too long. 🙂</p>
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		By: John		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 05:39:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow.  I find myself agreeing with Catchmeifyoucan AND Dr. Chopra.

To accept &quot;whatever will be will be&quot; is to deny yourself man&#039;s most important gift - Free Will.  We have the choice to accept the bits of pain and/or happiness life throws our way exactly as they are or we can take those pieces and put together the puzzle.  Putting together the puzzle, so that we may understand the &#039;bigger picture&#039; of life can be frustrating, draining, and extremely difficult. But, the satisfaction of knowing that your life has had purpose, other than to just experience it, is much more fulfilling than to simply throw your hands in the air and say, &quot;Whatever will be will be.&quot;  

Life is an adventure, as Mieke said, and when you come to a mountain, you may either stand at the base of it for the rest of your life and assume that your purpose was to merely appreciate how huge the mountain is... OR... you tighten your shoelaces, climb it a step at a time, take the cuts and bruises from the many times you will fall down, and EVENTUALLY, you will get to the top... and believe me, the view is much better up there.

But, back to the original question...  Ma&#039;am, your challenge on the mountain, at this moment, is finding a way to reevaluate the memory of someone who, at one time, made you happy.  Whether he decided not to call you because he was afraid of commitment or if he was abducted by aliens is irrelevant.  The fact is, you are not in contact with him, and despite your greatest efforts, you have not been able to reestablish that contact.  Now, instead of focusing on the loss of your idealized future with this man, you must cherish the reality that you had a very pleasant time with him, while it lasted, and now you are a better person for it.  Then, take the next step on your journey up your mountain. You&#039;ll get to the top. And, if you look around, you&#039;ll notice from the footprints ahead of you that you aren&#039;t the only person who has had to climb it, just don&#039;t give up. There are lots of us at the top cheering for you. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow.  I find myself agreeing with Catchmeifyoucan AND Dr. Chopra.</p>
<p>To accept &#8220;whatever will be will be&#8221; is to deny yourself man&#8217;s most important gift &#8211; Free Will.  We have the choice to accept the bits of pain and/or happiness life throws our way exactly as they are or we can take those pieces and put together the puzzle.  Putting together the puzzle, so that we may understand the &#8216;bigger picture&#8217; of life can be frustrating, draining, and extremely difficult. But, the satisfaction of knowing that your life has had purpose, other than to just experience it, is much more fulfilling than to simply throw your hands in the air and say, &#8220;Whatever will be will be.&#8221;  </p>
<p>Life is an adventure, as Mieke said, and when you come to a mountain, you may either stand at the base of it for the rest of your life and assume that your purpose was to merely appreciate how huge the mountain is&#8230; OR&#8230; you tighten your shoelaces, climb it a step at a time, take the cuts and bruises from the many times you will fall down, and EVENTUALLY, you will get to the top&#8230; and believe me, the view is much better up there.</p>
<p>But, back to the original question&#8230;  Ma&#8217;am, your challenge on the mountain, at this moment, is finding a way to reevaluate the memory of someone who, at one time, made you happy.  Whether he decided not to call you because he was afraid of commitment or if he was abducted by aliens is irrelevant.  The fact is, you are not in contact with him, and despite your greatest efforts, you have not been able to reestablish that contact.  Now, instead of focusing on the loss of your idealized future with this man, you must cherish the reality that you had a very pleasant time with him, while it lasted, and now you are a better person for it.  Then, take the next step on your journey up your mountain. You&#8217;ll get to the top. And, if you look around, you&#8217;ll notice from the footprints ahead of you that you aren&#8217;t the only person who has had to climb it, just don&#8217;t give up. There are lots of us at the top cheering for you. 🙂</p>
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		By: Catchmeifyoucan		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 01:29:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Mieke,
my prayer for you is to come to a better understanding of this life
and the God who created you for a purpose.
I&#039;m confused at how a person with such life experiences as yours 
can truly believe that &quot;whatever will be will be&quot; stuff.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mieke,<br />
my prayer for you is to come to a better understanding of this life<br />
and the God who created you for a purpose.<br />
I&#8217;m confused at how a person with such life experiences as yours<br />
can truly believe that &#8220;whatever will be will be&#8221; stuff.</p>
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		By: mieke		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mieke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 19:10:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AxpXG2wQ-MQ&#038;feature=related

You can blossom in any stage of your life :)]]></description>
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<p>You can blossom in any stage of your life 🙂</p>
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		By: mieke		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mieke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 18:55:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&quot;Letting go of the need to know&quot;

Doesn&#039;t  that apply to almost everything in our lives?

Living in uncertainty. It is the most difficult art of life, yet the most fulfilling one
because when you really think of it, it means adventure in your life.

And adventure in your life means that life is exciting, every moment of it.
Not knowing what will be is the best way to live in the moment.

Doris Day in my days already had a song about this:

Que sera sera, whatever will be will be

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Letting go of the need to know&#8221;</p>
<p>Doesn&#8217;t  that apply to almost everything in our lives?</p>
<p>Living in uncertainty. It is the most difficult art of life, yet the most fulfilling one<br />
because when you really think of it, it means adventure in your life.</p>
<p>And adventure in your life means that life is exciting, every moment of it.<br />
Not knowing what will be is the best way to live in the moment.</p>
<p>Doris Day in my days already had a song about this:</p>
<p>Que sera sera, whatever will be will be</p>
<p>🙂</p>
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