Comments on: Love with a Younger Man

By: Julie

Julie — Mon, 30 May 2011 01:43:28 +0000

Love is the greatest power on earth. Love is never wrong. There are no lines controlling love, only it’s behavior. The young man is 20 years old. In many cultures and for most of mankind’s History that is considered a mature man. He would be old enough to go to war and put the lives of many in his hands. Why not give him the respect he deserves and let him decide if he want’s to ignore the social taboos in the name of true love. Don’t let the talk of jealous ignorant people in the village prevent either of you from nurturing your love. There is never a sure thing in any relationship at any age. Yet if you don’t take the risk you cannot reap the rewards. Love is the perfect foundation for a stable relationship.

By: Nikki

Nikki — Wed, 02 Feb 2011 21:46:53 +0000

Mr. Chopra ,thanks for your response to the woman in love with a younger man.Iam going through the same sentiment .I feel much ligther now. Thanks again

By: ashok jain

ashok jain — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 08:23:12 +0000

In reply to ashok jain. what happened?

By: ashok jain

ashok jain — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 08:22:03 +0000

your deliema is very common and the solution has to be discovered within.you sound so painful,sometimes i felt you should marry him instantly.

By: sivaprasad

sivaprasad — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 12:46:41 +0000

In reply to eturk. "There is no thought to 50 years of union, ups and down, getting wrinkles together and dying. No thoughts of responsibility, commitment, helping each other overcome soul challenges and healing together." The essense of traditional life summed up in words. Well said, Wonderful, if one understans this, no one deviates the traditional process. The real beauty of living life together. I am totally satisfied that someone understood the true meaning of relationship in marriage and living life together. Let everyone read and understand this. God bless the breed.

By: Murph

Murph — Sat, 20 Mar 2010 03:13:20 +0000

37…you are still a young woman.

By: Sameer

Sameer — Sat, 20 Mar 2010 00:45:30 +0000

Sir, so very well said.

By: Chetna

Chetna — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 20:54:02 +0000

Also, don’t resist what you feel. Don’t obsess over whether you are doing the right thing or wrong. If you love this person, you can always love him and keep him in your heart, your thoughts and prayers and yet let him go. He is so young that he needs to experience life more, live his youth fully.

By: Chetna

Chetna — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 20:51:04 +0000

What an amazing set of responses. So true. Because you express so much pain, it is apparent that you need a lot of healing. Take this relationship as an opportunity to know that you are lovable and fall in love with yourself all over again. Be grateful to this man who has exposed you to this feeling, this love which is not outside you but it is inside you. And you can express this same love to any man in your life. Take this god sent opportunity to get to know yourself better so you attract a perfect soulmate for yourself. It could be this 20 year old man or someone else, leave it to the almighty. if you love yourself enough, you will realize that you need no one outside yourself to show you that you are lovable and desirable.

By: Debbie Bridge

Debbie Bridge — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 19:46:27 +0000

If possible, relax. You are all balled up inside with things that are not truly that important if your life is viewed from a universal and eternal perspective. Enjoy Today and respect yourself. Peace

By: eturk

eturk — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 19:30:43 +0000

It would seem right away the problem is the classic “falling” in love. So many people wait for this feeling and nothing else is love. When is falling good? Falling of a cliff, our of an airplane, or a tree? “Falling” describes complete helplessness. It is a chemical reaction completely consuming the body & ego. It’s what a drunk does: they fall down because “they” are not in control.

Thanks so Shakespeare & New Moon, and other movies & fiction we have generations of people convinced that falling, or feeling like dying, is love. There is no thought to 50 years of union, ups and down, getting wrinkles together and dying. No thoughts of responsibility, commitment, helping each other overcome soul challenges and healing together.

I say, RUN THE OTHER WAY MY DEAREST! Appreciate this young man seeing your beauty and feel beautiful when you look in the mirror. Let him live his life while you learn to let go the programming of “falling” and embrace “growing” with a partner. Learn first to love YOU so much you see your inner beauty THEN have a partner that consciously wants to celebrate your love for yourself and others.

Let’s end the cycle of “falling” in love, children to fix the loss of love, divorce to blame the other for not loving any more, and wounded children who have then no idea what love is… because their parents were simply responding to the genetic drive to mate.

Let us discover true love as Deepak is discussing above. Let us love the soul of ourselves and others!

By: Felecia

Felecia — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 19:04:24 +0000

I am inlove with a man 10 years younger than I. Its great!

By: Felecia

Felecia — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 19:02:53 +0000

I am in love with a man 0 years younger than I. can say as time changed for me throughout my years, I have allow love to appear in various looks. Young,old, traditional, nontraditional you name it. The lookof love goes on and on. I enjoy the energy and inspiration the relationship brings. I am over questions if it should be love or if t will last. I am in this moment and learning to embrace the gift of the experience. If it lasts 2 more months or 2 more years. I will regret nothing.

By: Lise Miller

Lise Miller — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 19:00:30 +0000

Thank you for that beautiful encouragement, Deepak.

I experienced a similar opening of the heart with a younger man. Soon afterward I met my husband (also a younger man, though not *quite* as young!). Continually re-opening my heart to him is the greatest joy of my life.