Comments on: College Son Visiting Home

By: John

John — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 00:49:22 +0000

I agree focus on your percieved good points about your son,love the child he was, and you will love the man he has become, try hsrd not to mentally judge him, speak your truth, with wisdom, void of emotion,,, compliment him on what he has achieved, tell him how proud you are of him, send him love and warm,,,,and see the change,,,,,,, water into wine

By: John

John — Mon, 31 Jan 2011 15:23:41 +0000

JANELL You didnt put your question, in the wrong spot, all things are as they should be,there are no mistakes, i guess some off us are drawn to the hero roll, detachement, in that roll, im sure will come with time, and experience, and her face m and your tears will fade,But you will remember,and you will become even better at what you do,and you will help thousands more, well done,,,,,,,,

By: Apam

Apam — Tue, 18 Jan 2011 09:00:42 +0000

I have the same problem with my mom, and it breaks my soul every time we have an argument. I try my best, if i catch my self being negative i apologize and cook for her, give her sum love, even help her out with the house chores. At one pint i went to therapy, and well made some spiritual work myself. The problem is, that she is too fixed in her oppinion about me. No matter what I do, what I say, what intention may be, she has painted me black, and all she sees is black, a monster. There is nothing healthy about a stressful routine of office work, being locked in a house, and dealing with life as a dangerous insecure place. she doesn’t know how to shake it off, and she is very afflicted when it comes to change. What I have learned in my spiritual journey for now is understanding, tolerance and that life is change, flow, not stagnation, routine. That being said this is the low and negative vibe she brings as well. It makes me not want to go home. I left partly because of that . So please don’t let it come this far, and well accept that life is change, and that change is good, whether it may seem bad at the time, it all serves a purpose of learning, and not only for him but for you as well. You can do it!!!! 🙂

By: jeff

jeff — Thu, 13 Jan 2011 23:26:44 +0000

If he does not feel or acknowledge the negative impact his presence has on your life, then he is not yet a man.

By: Janell

Janell — Thu, 06 Jan 2011 19:16:28 +0000

I apologize for putting my question in the wrong spot. I thought I was on the main page. I do appreciate the response. Thank you, it touched my heart.

By: Carole

Carole — Thu, 06 Jan 2011 10:46:27 +0000

What a wonderful answer!!!Thank you

By: Theresa Scheuerman

Theresa Scheuerman — Thu, 06 Jan 2011 03:48:46 +0000

You are an amazing person. All I know is when my time comes I hope and pray I will be looking into the eyes of a real live angel. Someone whose heart is made of pure gold. And whose eyes are filled with compassion. God Bless you. Please know that you are still a hero just the same.

By: Janell

Janell — Wed, 05 Jan 2011 21:05:45 +0000

I am a medic in the army. I work at BAMC in San Antonio in the ER. Yesterday, I performed CPR for the first time ( on a wild ride on the patient on the gurney from the ambulance bay straight to the trauma room). We got her back and she survived surgery. She later passed away in ICU. I did my job. I did it well enough that we got her back. The thing is, I can’t get her face out of my mind while I was doing CPR. She was looking right into my eyes. My knowledge tells me she was not aware, but my heart says different. Where was her consciousness? And will the image ever stop making me want to cry? It has however solidified my decision to finish my education and become a doc. I literally got to see her heart resume beating….that was most amazing experience I have had yet.