By: Rahul

Rahul — Sat, 05 Mar 2011 15:25:19 +0000

To the Asker of this is Q: If you didn’t compromise your desire to have an ideal relationship against arranged marriage, why should you compromise with your self-worth for someone who disrepects you. Don’t compromise on your self-worth, otherwise you will attarct only those people who will abuse you. The people in your family whom you observed were not able to take their bond beyond the initial happiness of having that someone new in life which is why their relationships could not EVOLVE from a plant into a tree. To have that ideal relationship, both the people involved needs to give something in. Insecurities about your physical appearance is a petty thing to worry about and the way you’ve described your question, you understand yourself very well and deep down you also know that it can’t be a reason you won’t be able to be with that person in life. If you haven’t been proactively looking for that person, start looking but before that please realize your self-worth and don’t compromise on that. I ask you, would you marry someone who comes to you in desperation? I recommend read or watch “The Secret”, it’s a good book which explains you about the concious and unconcious perceptions and choices we make about our desires.

By: Emily

Emily — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 08:25:03 +0000

marriage could also be a way for a couple to work out unresolved issues in the past. Therefore, each individual relearns the lessons of life and advocates for spiritual growth.

By: vivian bagley

vivian bagley — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 02:02:03 +0000

to be married and happy you must understand that love is a choice, not a sensation….feeling if the fruit doing is the root…..hapiness in marriage depends on coming to terms with your mutual defects and dealing with them realistically. Every marriage is made up of two flawed people and you must learn the facts and deal with it wisley.

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