Comments on: Embracing Uncertainty or Recklessness

By: nasly

nasly — Fri, 25 Mar 2011 02:54:01 +0000

I think the last comment and the one before last both make perfect sense.

By: Amanda Ollier

Amanda Ollier — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 20:09:25 +0000

I believe that provided you learn from something it has purpose and whilst your two previous relationships didn’t go well, they will have come into your life to teach you something. Therefore to disregard them and their lack of happy ending would be to miss the point of them. Whilst it is not healthy or helpful to dwell in the past, it is vital to learn the lessons available from it.

Your instincts are telling you what you need to do. Read back the letter you have written here and your decision is already in there. Why would you put yourself and your children at risk, knowingly, for the sake of a stranger? If you have a need to help someone you will find a way to do that without risk to yourself.

The man you are looking for exists, so make sure you are looking for the right one! Remember that what you think about comes about, so create your perfect partner in your mind and with focus and belief you will find him and when you do, your instincts will give you a very different feeling to the one given to you by this young man.

Maybe he came into your life to demonstrate to you that you can understand and trust your instincts but you don’t need to repeat mistakes to prove that to yourself.

If one of your children was asking you what you have asked Deepak here I bet you’d answer in a heartbeat.

I wish you well on your journey. Trust in your unconscious to give you the answer, it always wants what’s best for you.

With love,
Amanda

By: Brian Downey

Brian Downey — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 21:48:43 +0000

I would agree that following instinct here is the best approach. Is your instinct coming from a place of fear or from the heart? The fear based mind is stuck in the past and moves forward only from memory were as the pure loving heart is in the moment and can guide you toward experiences that no amount of preparation could lead you to. But I must say that it is too easy to lay judgment on someone when they are in a circumstance that appears unstable. When I was 27 I had an overwhelming feeling to hit the road and go on an open ended journey. I had very little money and packed the few possessions I had in my truck and started driving. Everyone judged me and thought I had lost my mind and was taking a huge risk since I had nothing to fall back on. That act of faith changed my life in ways that completely transformed me. The universe opened doors to me that one could not plan. The places, people, and experiences I encountered enriched my life and I helped transform the lives of others all unexpectedly. Had I listened to all the criticism and advice none of that would’ve taken place. Your answer can not come from someone else, even Deepak. Peace, Love, & Best wishes!! Brian

By: jeff

jeff — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 01:04:33 +0000

Listen to Dr. Chopra, especially if you haven’t learned to trust your instincts. It’s Time to try a new approach to finding a healthy, positive relationship.

By: Debbie Bridge

Debbie Bridge — Sun, 20 Mar 2011 05:07:13 +0000

We give and we get in our choices of relationships. Every relationship we are in meets some need. What do you derive from choosing men that you have to take care? Is it that they are ‘safe’ in the sense that you don’t truly take them seriously and know you will walk away eventually?