Comments on: Fear of losing one’s partner

By: William Smith

William Smith — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 18:33:17 +0000

I would start with the fear you feel about loosing him. Keep yourself based in reality, right here, right now. What thoughts go through your mind that are causing the fear? Write them down and let them lead you to other thoughts based in the present moment. What do you think will happen? Where do you see yourself ending up, so on and so on. Take the positives and look at where they lead and then reinforce the positives in your mind by connecting with the feelings they bring you. Take the negatives and find the positive through them. It is not “all” about us personally, it is about all of “us”. “It” is “all” personal to “us”. This is a key that I believe connects everyone in this world. It is all personal and because of this we loose the others because of the fear we personally feel. Fear is only what we allow it to be. Fear “is” based strictly on the thoughts that travel through our own minds. We can and do control every second of it! So take control of the fears and take control of your life. It is not always easy but persistence pays off. I hope this is not to confusing. GB.

By: Veronica D

Veronica D — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 19:55:49 +0000

Fear of loss is the path to the dark side. Yoda (Star Wars)

By: erika

erika — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 16:50:08 +0000

You are not alone in this, I too live with this overwhelming fear of losing my soul mate, It started since the moment I met him and I too beleave it comes from our past(s) lives together. I have done alot of meditation, and have changed my whole outlook on it. ( it took alot of time for me personality) But I charishish. every moment we have together & know that the universe has a plan I know its the right one for me & I can not change that I just have learned to embrace the moment!