Comments on: Healing Emotional and Verbal Abuse

By: brenda

brenda — Sat, 16 Jul 2011 04:21:37 +0000

help

By: brenda

brenda — Sat, 16 Jul 2011 04:21:08 +0000

3 bipolar adult achocolic kids i have bipolar 2 80 year old husband and hate everyone even my-self any ideas

By: gold prospecting

gold prospecting — Tue, 17 May 2011 00:05:51 +0000

I couldnt agree with you more.

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By: V

Sun, 29 Aug 2010 19:30:54 +0000

Your father is a damaged person himself and I cannot comment on what he has done since I am not a professional, and in that area Deepak’s advice is sound. What I offer you from my own life is to honor the life force he has given you, by taking it and creating the greatest life you can! I don’t know you, but as difficult as it is, see all the positives!! It may seem like a war at times, but don’t respond with violence on yourself or anyone, since that is the problem in itself. Put Deepak, Wayne Dyer’s, and any other positive lectures on your mp3, ipod, or whatever, and put your attention on positive things by listening to them every day until they become a part of your being, love and action. Above all, love yourself and know you’re a part of this entire world. You’re not alone. Get and accept help wherever it may be, and own your life! Bless you and remember, a little luck never hurts either!

By: Michael dillon

Michael dillon — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 01:53:15 +0000

May god be with you

By: Char

Char — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 08:06:55 +0000

The August 18, 1:57 p.m. advice posted above is excellent and brings with it great wisdom. Read that one again precious.

By: Gyanama

Gyanama — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 21:11:13 +0000

And to know that none of this has ever injured the Real You-

Peace always Is….

By: eturk

eturk — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 18:57:30 +0000

I had a mentally ill mother who was very abusive. Really practicing the mantra “It’s not about me” is very healing. To visualize and see the person as SEPARATE from me. We are two different people. As Don Miguel Ruiz teaches in The Four Agreements – Don’t take anything personally. Everyone is caught in their own dream (and for some, nightmare).

This is deep compassion. Compassion is seeing, feeling, the suffering of others. The story of the man who walked up to Buddha and spat on him comes to mind. A follower next to Buddha was shocked, “how could you let him do that?” But Buddha saw deeper. Buddha realized it had nothing to to with Buddha. He saw that the man was in deep suffering, and just added to his suffering. That hurt people, hurt people. Buddha’s heart opened, he saw only the man’s deep pain and felt love for the man. The man returned the next day, crying about his pain, and became a follower.

The father is in great agony. Allow him to have his own dream or nightmare. It has nothing to do with you. Forgiving myself for not being able to help my mother was very freeing. We love our parents, we want to help them from our first moments. We may even blame ourselves for not being able to help them, and take on their words as true. But that is not seeing them as their own person. Let all of that go! See and feel it all dissolve, as a meditation. There is simply a man suffering. He has his own journey of healing. You have yours.

By: carolyn wind

carolyn wind — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 18:55:33 +0000

your answer is so beautiful, Deepak..

Questioner…best to you as you uncover This wholeness that you are..
love, Carolyn

By: jean

jean — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 17:11:04 +0000

Your father is toxic,The most important thing to remember is that you have the power to stop a toxic person. You do this by controlling your own actions and reactions. As you probably already know, you cannot control the actions of other people. But the good thing is you can control yourself and your life. You have the power to walk away from a toxic person and not allow them into your life anymore.

By: christina

christina — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 08:46:37 +0000

I would like to send this young man an attachment that would maybe just put things in perspective if he would like to give me his email?

By: christina

christina — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 08:32:55 +0000

Listen. You are so brave, and have come so far for one so young. Please please do not allow this deadful person to damage you further. Tell this vile alcoholic bully to go torment someone else. Concentrate on YOU. You will never make sense of his treatment of you ( there is no sense to be made of it). He will never have a reason for it ( other than “poor me”) Take it from one who knows, an alcoholic will guilt trip
you for as long as your young shoulders will take it and still walk away.
I promise, there is a fantastic life waiting for you. Treat yourself well and go and find it. Leave the garbage at the back of the truck and know you have better waiting for you.
god bless

By: Dianne Hensley

Dianne Hensley — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 07:19:33 +0000

Roy Masters is good at helping people with these types of problem. http://www.fhu.com. I lived with an alcoholic husband. I feel like a raised him and his children. Thank god I was strong enough to protect my children. I’m still at it. I’m responsable. (able to respond). When we are strong,others are helped. DH