Comments on: Leaving the In-laws

By: gulmohar

gulmohar — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 07:15:41 +0000

It’s more healthy to be independent. You can always extend compassion from a distance.

By: kishor

kishor — Wed, 02 Feb 2011 05:08:03 +0000

In a typical Indian environment this is an apt question., elders do not see factor of privacy and presume it is their right to get served by following generation., while siblings cannot frankly admit they need privacy… Mr Deepak : any comment on this ?

By: Debbie Bridge

Debbie Bridge — Wed, 02 Feb 2011 00:07:38 +0000

I agree with Deepak. Give it time. Everyone is insecure and adjusting. Move forward in your life…not backward.

By: Marco

Marco — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 16:51:22 +0000

Depak’s answer is beutiful…

By: John

John — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 10:16:12 +0000

if your relationship,is outstanding with your inlaws,And love is full, this means there is no top dog , then yes whynot live ,under the same roof , but if there is a top dog lurking, live your own life,in your own home. if control is an issue, the controler will make the first ,request, because it s lost its identity, and the controlled fullfils its identity, also you can know by the energy you feel , in the presence of your home in the company of your partner, likewise with the inlaws whereever the energy feels suited to you , happiest,calme, easy ,fun ,lovtng, free ,etc would be ,for me the,easiest choice to make