https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/relationship-decision/ Committed to Creating a Peaceful, Just, Sustainable, Healthy, and Joyful World. Mon, 12 Apr 2010 16:33:32 +0000 hourly 1 https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/relationship-decision/#comment-5241 Mon, 12 Apr 2010 16:33:32 +0000 http://deepakchopra.com/?p=13113#comment-5241 Dr. Chopra has given a very precise answer here. After being abused for so long, your ego is badly hurt. If you read chopra’s Path to love, you will realize a path to your own fulfillment. May be you are already on the path and your ego is very worried of losing control on you, hence you have these bursting emotions on insecurity. Meditate, have unconditional faith in God and try to find your true self. Don’t quit on this relationship if you are not sure. Use it as a mirror to learn more things about yourself that you dont like and that you need to start loving. For instance, this relationship mirror is showing you that you are unlovable because you are 50 years old, because you are not physically a model kind. These insecurities are keeping you away from loving your lover unconditionally and therefore you are having doubts abt this relationship but instead you are not loving yourself and hence this relationship or ANY relationship will be unsatisfying to you. Dont let anyone tell you anything. Learn more of yourself, LOVE yourself more and then when you are completely healed you will dance the cosmic dance with your lover, no matter how he is. Chopra says ‘Whoever you are with is the right person for you’. So start with loving yourself unconditionally and the world will fall in love with you.

]]> https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/relationship-decision/#comment-5240 Sun, 11 Apr 2010 11:33:50 +0000 http://deepakchopra.com/?p=13113#comment-5240 I agree with dge. Not because of the age difference, but because of how this person makes you feel. The fact that he smokes pot to relax him, he might has personality issues. Also, studies done of people that has been using pot for a very long time might become paranoid. Continue in you journey of loving your self ! Peace be with you.

]]> https://choprafoundation.org/ask-deepak/relationship-decision/#comment-5239 Sat, 10 Apr 2010 00:10:07 +0000 http://deepakchopra.com/?p=13113#comment-5239 Your body is stronger–don’t allow anyone or anything to harm you emotionally any longer. Your friend may be very nice but it seems better for you to “call it quits.”

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