Comments on: Strugging with Forgiveness

By: John

John — Mon, 31 Jan 2011 13:28:26 +0000

Agree with Vivian, Crack on,,,,,,you pain comes from thought of the subject, stop thinking of it, results less pain, if you are great at meditation , good if not stimulate yourself with happy activities ,friends holidays new experiences, workouts ,,,,your mind then has something else to comment on,, make them great things you basically retrain your mind and definatley dont mix with people who want to swap sob stories, when your confidence is back then you will have the tools to accept what has occured this is easier than the double edgep sword of forgivness do acceptance, and see how that makes you feel, if the feeling ,feels not bad then you are on the right track to getting back to your old happy self,,,,,

By: vivian bagley

vivian bagley — Thu, 13 Jan 2011 01:59:13 +0000

if you want to mope around and OH WOE IS ME you are causing damage to yourself, been there, done that, have the tee shirt….and until I let loose and realized that he is still living and having fun and I am sad and moping, it turned me around
drop the baggage and get on with your life.

By: Elena

Elena — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 15:02:19 +0000

I had the same problem. Marianne Williamson suggested praying every morning (or evening – thats what I did) for this person for 2-5 min. That greatly helps soften your heart and seek for forgiveness. It eats you up otherwise. Try that for a while.

By: CS

CS — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 00:46:23 +0000

Well I am sure glad that life does not die..and I am sure glad that struggles can be given up. And I am sure glad that I know this, and I am sure glad that I follow my own advice…I am glad that I know God/Good, Love…I love, love itself, yet I can’t define what that is, but I can say that I love, love…..

That’s all I can say…

By: Melinda Hassell

Melinda Hassell — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 00:39:13 +0000

I struggle with forgiveness. It looks like I forgive because I cannot remember hurtful events. I have been told that one of the causes of cancer is holding on to grudges and resentments. I know that in order to survive cancer is by letting go of grudges and resentments, which means forgiveness. What do you know about it?

By: CS

CS — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 00:31:02 +0000

A wise adage comes to Mind just now..
The sinner and the sin are the twain that are one flesh, but which God (Divine Principle), hath not joined together.

The true sense of love is to love God/Good. The human sense of love narrows itself down to a concept, or a person, and shuts out others, that is not love. Really we do not love person; it is the eternal omnipresent good that we love. This true sense of love brings freedom and an enlarged sense of things.

By: Terry

Terry — Tue, 11 Jan 2011 19:13:39 +0000

the old adage:
Hate the sin
Love the sinner

By: CS

CS — Tue, 11 Jan 2011 00:40:48 +0000

When you say sadly still in love with him, what exactly do you mean?

By: Judy Frame

Judy Frame — Mon, 10 Jan 2011 19:26:30 +0000

Would it be possible for me to obtain a list of the books you have written plus the copyright date for each one?
Thank you. – Judy

By: Felecia

Felecia — Mon, 10 Jan 2011 14:33:06 +0000

Deepak Chopra as always provides masterful insight to events that are most hurtful and painful. It is like applying cognitive therapy every day. Replacing toxic thoughts and feelings with those feelings and thoughts that nourish the soul.

By: Rahul

Rahul — Sun, 09 Jan 2011 16:56:11 +0000

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By: Mother Lightning

Mother Lightning — Sun, 09 Jan 2011 04:15:26 +0000

Those who are in pain, we collectively pray for an outcome of healing.
The tide will turn, & time does heal.

Love & Peace Always,
Mother Lightning
of [thepeacegarden.blogspot.com]

By: Debbie Bridge

Debbie Bridge — Sat, 08 Jan 2011 15:47:35 +0000

It takes time for a broken heart to heal…three to five years. It is a process you must go through. Don’t concern yourself about forgiveness at this time. Peace, Debbie

By: Birgitte

Birgitte — Sat, 08 Jan 2011 14:31:01 +0000

I have experienced that it’s harder to hold on it, than to let go. I think a lot of us, including myself, has mis-learned about forgiveness. We’ve learned that to forgive them is saying “it was OK what you did to me; it was OK that you hurt me.” But, I’ve found, now as an adult, that it’s not that at all. Forgiveness is simply letting go; or just not holding on to the negative things. And, that, to me, is liberation. I use the term “liberating myself” instead of forgiveness. I’ve tried this many times now, and it actually works! I feel so much more free! And that’s a good feeling! I’ll ask you the same question that a good friend of mine presented to me not so long ago; Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?
Namaste! Love, Birgitte

By: zhanna babayan

zhanna babayan — Sat, 08 Jan 2011 08:51:20 +0000

I am sorry i did few mistakes in my writing, i am not healthy at all and 64 for years without any income and i have nobody to help me .Zhanna

By: zhanna babayan

zhanna babayan — Sat, 08 Jan 2011 08:44:29 +0000

I have problem with my previos employer.She borro w mone y from me and she told me that i have to work for free to sell her merchandise,only if am goign to work for free she returned me my money. I work for her for many years and she payed much less for my job than other employes even i worked for her 6 yearsShe made great money at that time,but she always use by promincing to buy condo for me.But instead she fired me. I got serios ill, bud she didnt care. She has commercial building and her house more than 1mln dollars.What i have to do.She told me if am not going to work free she not going to pay my money back. Why i feel bad because she pay all empoyes except me. I right now live in cheep appartmen and too healty.I feel bad because she hurted me too much.Even after i wind up in the hospital. She never visited me.What you think what i have to do? Help me. I feel very bad to be treated this way,but in the same time i need my money, otherwise i dont know what iam goin to do.So please help me