Comments on: Taking Things Personally

By: John

John — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 00:09:36 +0000

Simple free to say ,what we like if we love ourselves greatly no matter what anyone says or does can hurt us john ,,,,great name almost as great as mine ,,,,, be bold be true to your nature and dont seek approval from man nor beast MENT TO READ AS CANT after does but cant be bothered to type it again

By: John

John — Thu, 06 Jan 2011 20:56:34 +0000

Nilesh,

I agree with the response you offered to g. However, your statement: “I am just trying to share what I have learned from my experiences and if I have intruded in someway, I apologize to whoever is offended.” seems to indicate that your ego was feeling the need to be approved. Please help me to understand as I am trying to overcome this in myself.

By: nilesh

nilesh — Sun, 02 Jan 2011 15:47:04 +0000

Greetings my friend,
First off all, it is not the higher reality.It is the only reality. What Deepakji is trying to say here is, its not your real self that is getting hurt, its your false ego that is getting hurt. Even your ego is a part of a your true reality. When you see everything as your own creation, you will not get hurt by anyone’s reaction or action. Try to practice this, and you will see that nothing is able to hurt you. No matter how hopeless the situation is, when you see it as your own creation, you become in charge of the situation and from there you can change whatever you want to change. The easiet way to do this, is to watch how you react to the situation and please, do yourself a favour, do not judge yourself even with yourself. Just be observant and everything will change very soon. Just be honest and you will be able to realise the reality Deepakji is talking about. It is not very hard or long path. It is the simplest path which is why it seems a little too difficult to follow. We have conditioned ourselves with so much complexity that even such a simple thing seems so hard. I hope that this will help you and your surroundings, and you will have a very bright and peaceful new year.
With lots of love,
Nilesh
I am just trying to share what I have learned from my experiences and if I have intruded in someway, I apologize to whoever is offended.
Thanks for reading,
Nilesh

By: m b narang

m b narang — Thu, 30 Dec 2010 13:51:32 +0000

deepakji ..will u pls explain more, when we have still to reach such higher level of reality ,,,,,till that time ,,,,,,how do we manage such situations where others deliberately want to hurt us or harm us ,,,,and want to destroy us at level of mind ,,,or body ,,,,,,because SIR ,,,even if we living in spiritually ,,,,,we may have still a long road to that understanding or self- knowledge which u talks in this reply ….sir u may send me a personal reply ,,,if u not wants to give reply in this forum