ABringing peace with the right words

Within the intent of ‘through action, thought, and speech” bring peace. The speech part has me confused. It seems like everyone is stepping up to raise their vibration, yet through their own words counter this, even in manifesting. The word WANT is very neg. to me(there are many others). If thoughts, or intent are sent out as a desire it only comes back with still WANTING it. Want also mean lack, (thus not available) so why would we create more lack? Changing vocabulary with words- words are energy , wanting to bring peace, will result in still wanting it or a much longer time frame for delivery. I believe if more people were to become aware of this, the world might just be a better place. Please help.