Finding Peace in Relationships

This time I am really hoping that my question will be answered as what I am about to ask is causing a lot of unrest within me. In your conversation on relationships (saw it on NDTV in India), you said that love and hate are reflections of our own traits within us. But the million dollar question is that even if I understand why I do not get along a certain person, how do I overcome it?

I want to be peaceful within and really hope that I hear from you on this one.