I am struggling with forgiveness.  My fiancé left me to be with someone else.  I am hurt, angry, confused, and sadly, still in love with him.  I want to forgive him but forgiving him seems like I would be saying “what you did is ok”, and it’s NOT.  I know holding onto these negative feelings is only hurting me, but I don’t know HOW to let it go.  Please help me!

I have endured stress induced anxiety for months now. It has taken over my life and become an obsession. I think constantly about all my aches and pains, which are all stress induced and it is exhausting. How long will it take for my body to get back to its normal self with meditation? Will it help me so I can be a better person and mother???

I have been privileged to have access to about eight of your books here in Nigeria and i have been totally transformed by them. However, i want to know how to transcend the workings of witchcraft and black magic. Being African and living in a remote village has given me first hand experiences of these forces in my life and peoples lives. I have seen how these negative forces ruin so many lives through merciless witch hunting, curses of varying types, misfortunes, etc. How can one undo all the witchcraft influences in one’s life?

My son is 19 years old. He is only home on college vacations – but I am finding it very difficult, as he matures, to live with him. I feel like I have truly begun to let go – but how do I live with him – when I realize that I may not enjoy being around the man he has become?

You say that relationships are what make us happy and I completely agree. But what if a relationship does not go the way we want to despite of putting all our heart and good intention on it. The problem is with this guy I got to know recently. It was an immediate connection and jokingly we called each other’s soul mates. There was a lot of similarity in the way of thinking and he also had a very positive outlook on life, just like me. However he started to have less attention on me somehow and more on his works and different projects. It got so intense that part that he decided to just stop the contact. He says that it is because of work only, and that he is still interested on me. He hopes that we can be together some day but not now. Thinking of your lessons of wisdom, I try to let go, and leave up to the Universe to decide the best. But it is not easy. Time by time there is the urge to write and be in contact, but i have promised not to do that. I experience true joy every time I think of him, but I feel that is not enough. Do you have any advice on how to handle this in the right way? I am usually a very happy and active person and always try to see opportunities instead of problems….but I would still appreciate some of your wisdom on how to see the opportunity on this specific issue.