If we are all saints in the making, and God’s magnetic force pulls us toward him sooner or later,what happens to the freedom of choice? Sartre said: “Man is freedom”. If we choose not to be close to God, do you believe he would pull us toward him against our will?

I am a lecturer in a government college. My wife is complaining type personality and want every things to be done perfectly, and also very sensitive, she 29 years, and suffering from diabetes, and my parents are old, and they live with us, and there is no coordination between my mom and my wife. My wife manages a private school started by me and my friends. My mom though lives with us, though she does not sympathise with our busy schedule and always criticises my wife in front of others. My father is paralytic.
Regarding myself, I feel suffocated in this environs, I want a calm, peaceful and stressless life, I am a little spiritually inclined and want to gain lot of knowledge about myself and the world. I have done two ten day courses of Vipassana meditation. I want to leave all this behind and want to go for searching my inner self. But I don’t want my family members to be in trouble also. i want to live a life of bliss and happiness.

While I am meditating my body moves independently into synchronized yogic postures and movements, complete with breathing and sound techniques. Occasionally  I have visualized colored shapes. What pathway could I be on?

What really is romantic chemistry? Attraction? If it is an illusion, why is it so important to have it with a partner? What if you recognize a good person with whom you have no romantic chemistry, is it worthwhile, in your opinion, to make a relationship happen with this person? Is it better to choose someone who is a wonderful person, even if there is no attraction, because chemistry dies eventually anyway? A best friend rather than a lover? Thanks for answering my question.

How is it that some spiritual healers are naturally gifted and others have to develop their healing capabilities?