I am 27 year old and since childhood have been very lazy. I feel I could have achieved more success in life if I were a bit more active. Please advise how to overcome laziness and procrastination. How do one become active in life?
Also, I tried Vipassana meditation which my brain finds very logical and advises me to practice it regularly but as soon as I sit for meditation a fear grips me and I feel doubtful if this is the right technique to practice. How do one understand which meditation is good for us as we have hundred different gurus and meditation types available in India now?
Finding One’s Ultimate Calling
I have been trying to find the ultimate calling of my life. I am finding it hard to specifically point the one thing that I would excel and have the passion for so that my work becomes my play. The course of my life has been such that any passionate and deep longing and wish that I recognize, materializes with time. I am just lost with wanting to know what is that I can do now, to make the world a better place and also enjoy doing it.
I hope to answer these prime questions to realize my super-life with some help from you.
For some background info: I am 29y and from an well-to-so middle class family. I had a daughter 2 years back. I am usually liked by most who know me. I bring energy, optimism and life with my presence.
Marriage is something that I am still learning, was married early at 21y to a person I love. But, with my convictions and discipline, problems do stem up with day to day happenings. I am working towards understanding myself and the others better.
Stress Free
What about B/B=BlackBerry’s? Is the Stress Free application available on other platforms?
Medicine and Destiny
Since we are here to learn lessons and there are no accidents, why should we seek medical attention if the illness we encounter is a karmic lesson? If our death is pre-ordained and will occur from a certain malady at a certain time, is medical intervention useless?
Marrying Outside of Family’s Religion
I have been in a 4-year relationship with a man who is of a different religion than myself. My parents are extremely conservative and do not approve of this relationship. (In my religion there is no conversion and we must marry within the religion.) They are constantly making me feel guilty and as if I am a bad daughter, since they have done so much for me and I am somewhat dependent on them. I am having a hard time reconciling the Law of Karma. Though I am happy, my parents are also affected by this choice and they are extremely hurt. All their guilt and disappointment is even making me second-guess my relationship with my boyfriend. Do you have any advice for me?