I have a question related to meditation. I am a firm meditator from the past 4 years and I enjoy doing that daily. My health has improved and I can work without any stress levels. I even feel bliss when I do meditation.
My question is that from the first day I started meditation, it seems most of the people I meet are also meditators.
This has happened with almost 10 people so far. Why do you think I am regularly meeting meditators?
Identify yourself with the bigger picture and not the minute details. Believe that your awareness can expand without limitations. -Deepak Chopra
I have a very difficult relationship w/ my mother and uncle. I love them even w/ all the problems that they may have. I accept their problems, their depression. They have very difficult time building relationships, accepting the “other” as is. So, long story short , they cut me out of their lives. They prefer a life alone and away of the joy of their grandkids and building a future together. I stopped fighting back( and it hurts me that the only family that I ( and they )have cut us out). I send them my prayers and love. I am still concerned about them and their health. How should we deal w/ people that makes us suffer, when we still have so much to love and create?
I find that the Law of Detachment is challenging for me. I understand by letting go of my preconceived ideals of how to reach my intention opens up the field of possibilities, however when I think of detachment I have feeling of giving up the intention. How do I find the balance and grace between believing in the fulfillment of my intention but the ability to simple let go of the process.
I have learned to practice detachment/ surrender and to trust the outcome of
my desires to God. I have experienced some amazing synchronicities and manifestations. However sometimes when I am close to reaching a goal I begin to have a harder time keeping negative thought out and trusting in my higher power. When something is only a concept in my mind it is easier to detach from it and let things work out however it will, trusting in God that the results will be the best for me. But when that concept becomes a real physical thing , ( for example, when I actually meet and start dating my “perfect” mate, or am about to actually make a lot of money) I have trouble letting it go. “What if she begins dating someone else…” ” What if…” I know these thoughts may block stuff from happening. How do you let stuff go when it’s at the point where it seemingly means so much to you
