American inequality: Who is subsidizing our lifestyle?

On the economic front, separate news stories are painting a disturbing picture of American inequality. The number of uninsured people has jumped from last year’s totals. The gap between the rich and poor has grown wider for 30 years (at current levels, the top fifth of earners takes home 50% of the money while the bottom fifth takes home 3%). Do you think of this being a fair country, a place where opportunity shines for everyone? Be prepared for a different reality. Among all Western industrialized countries, the U.S. stands last in income equality. England, the home of residual class antagonism going back for centuries, has leveled the playing field better than we have. (more…)

Postponing Relationships

Should I keep pursuing a love relationship based on independence and giving? Or should I just accept that I’m attracted to men who have qualities that I miss in myself. I don’t allow myself to be with anybody like that. But as I am now, I’m worried I will never be complete enough to be able to love somebody for all the right reasons. I hope you have an answer, since this is a big issue in my life.