Unity and Diversity

I have been on this spiritual journey of mine for over 4 years and feel I have gained a lot of insight into the universe and God but I am still puzzled by one thing. I feel it is true that we all have a soul and that it journeys from life time to life time, gathering wisdom as it grows. But I also believe that we are all connected, all one and there is the rub for me. It seems that the soul is an individual thing at least if it is

true that we all have our own, while the concept of a connected universe, where everything is God, seems to suggest only one soul, the soul of God. Now I have read many books and have meditated on this question but I have yet to receive an answer that is satisfying to me. If you can offer any insight into this question of mine, I would really appreciate it.