Should I keep pursuing a love relationship based on independence and giving? Or should I just accept that I’m attracted to men who have qualities that I miss in myself. I don’t allow myself to be with anybody like that. But as I am now, I’m worried I will never be complete enough to be able to love somebody for all the right reasons. I hope you have an answer, since this is a big issue in my life.

How do you maintain a high enough level of consciousness when someone throws a ball of negativity at you, so that you don’t feel resentment and anger afterward?

I personally view, memory, as being the way to my soul, and to God. I’m 
fascinated by memory, it seems to me to be like a fractal dimension, 
undulating into my past, yet, constantly, affecting my choices of the 
moment. Prayer for me is an exercise in sublimating desire with deep memory. 
Ultimately finding the eternal thread of consciousness that connects me, with 
all things presently. My question is: What really is memory?

The spiritual law I struggle with the most is “least effort”.  The issue for me is accepting the situation as it is when I see another person manipulating the situation to his or her own self interest.   Also, when someone is doing harm to another…..how can I accept this situation as it is?  My instinct is speak up against it or take action to stop the harm.  Unless I’m mis-understanding the law, I feel a disconnect in my heart on this one.

I´ve been practicing the So-Ham-Meditation you recommended in your book “The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desires” for quite a while and really have reaped some remarkable benefits from it, even though I only meditate once a day and only from Monday to Friday. I feel more centered in my everyday activities, experience more intuitive insights and synchronicities.

I realized lately in your current videos that now you tend to recommend the I-Am-Mantra. Is there a specific reason to that? I also read from other spiritual teachers, that the actual mantra of the breath is Ham-Sa. And there´s also Primordial Sound Meditation, where the Mantra is chosen very individually according to date, time and place of birth.

So I´m wondering, if there is something I should change in my meditation practice (aside from the fact that I should do it twice every day), which would make it even more effective. Are there really that much differences between the different mantras (there are a lot of them!) and should one stick to only one mantra for an extended period of time?