Social Isolation from Judging Others

Since my childhood, I had a faith that if anyone does something wrongful act, he/she must be forced to realize that they had done something wrong because, if they are not made to realize, they will surely commit that wrongful act again. For that, either they must be punished or they must apologize their mistake. Therefore, whenever someone does a wrong to me, I try that they must realize their mistake. Due to it I am left with only few friends. My relations with my parents are worst because they many times lie to me & don’t understand my feelings. I want a honest relation with everyone based on truth. In other words, I believe that as anyone behaves with me I must also behave with him/her in the same way. Please help. THANK YOU.

Unfinished Business

I have felt that my life, since age 14, has been a series of coincidental incidents. I have said many times, “Life gives one glimpses into the future if you pay attention to and acknowledge the signs”! For example, at age 14, I met my future mother-in-law and some how “knew” she would be an important part of my life. Twenty-five years later, I married her son. True story. I have experienced many situations like this in my life but only put a name to it when I read your book about SynchroDestiny. I now believe nothing is coincidence, it’s all part of the grand plan designed for us by G&d. My question for you is this: Is there a concept of “unfinished destiny”? I ask because I have someone in my life who is becoming more important to me and I wonder if we have an unfinished destiny to explore. Do you believe this is possible?

Doing Shadow Work to Eliminate Old Patterns

I feel I am at a crossroads in my life. I am 57 and have two children one who is married and the other who is about to leave to live in her own apartment. I divorced my husband around 20 years ago after suffering a lot of mental cruelty. I separated from my last partner two years ago after nearly 14 years together as I felt I was losing my identity in our relationship. I recently left my job as I suffered bullying at work and could not stand it anymore. I am hopeful of a better future but I feel I have hit rock bottom and do not want to repeat my old mistakes. However I feel that I have not learned anything and will somehow make another bad decision. Have you any suggestions for me that might help. I have read your book the Seven Spiritual Laws of Success many times and find great peace within.

Three Month Marriage

I have been reading your book ‘The Path to Love’ and it has helped me understand myself a lot better. I realize the importance of the spiritual perspective of the marriage. I was able to identify areas where I was lacking as a partner. I am going through divorce from a 3 month marriage. My soon-to-be ex-wife left me because I could not meet her expectations of keeping her happy. Even though when I requested her to go for marriage counseling she refused and surprised me with sending divorce papers in mail. Obviously it left me devastated. I then started reading Eckhart Tolle and your books. I am doing much better emotionally and physically now compared to what I was couple of months ago. But I still find anger and resentment in my heart towards her and her family. I know that it is my ego which is making me feel that way, but I am finding it difficult to get past it. There are days when I feel sorry for her, because I realize that she is driven by her ego. But the days when I
receive or have to send legal papers or I get an email from her, it disturbs me and makes me angry. I never wanted to be in this position, I was willing to do everything to save my marriage but she refused to even acknowledge my efforts.
I would like to know, how can I train myself to not let anger control me and more importantly how to forgive her.

Strange Sleep Experience

I am following a spiritual path and your teachings along with Caroline Myss’s work have helped me transform beyond all recognition over the past two years. I am a totally different person in mind, body & spirit now. I have found truth.
However I am having experiences in my sleep that I can’t understand. As I sleep I am aware of my ears and my head buzzing. The sounds I hear are very similar to white noise that buzz on and off and my whole body and head feels aroused. It’s like a charge of electricity. I sometimes sense a light behind my eyes. It feels like it lasts for about 5 minutes and I know that if I wake myself up I will feel terrible so I tell myself to go with the feelings. Despite being asleep, I am observing what is happening.
It has happened about 10 times in the last three’ish years. They are good experiences, almost sexual, like reaching a point of orgasm … but I wonder if you are able to explain what might be happening and if I could enhance the feelings further (as there is a part of me that is frightened to surrender to it all.)
I have suffered for the past ten years with noise in my right ear, which I thought was tinnitus for a time but I now believe it to be an energetic block (it has improved 60% since cutting chemicals from my diet)