Sometimes in life we are surrounded by people who are just extremely difficult. Its said everywhere that you need to learn how to forgive and forget and sacrifice and tolerate…. I agree to everything. But, at times it just becomes too much to bear … What if you have in your life one such person who just doesn’t yield to
anything and is just too difficult … I know that the person will change in time and I know that no matter what I do I can never change that person but I can change my own thoughts … However, this process of waiting seems to be taking forever and this person is just like a predator on my mind … I have no option but to accept my situation as there is just no way that I can go away or get rid of this person (at least not for 2 more years) … in this situation how can I control my sanity and keep myself calm. At times I get so angry and frustrated that I just don’t know what to do but I truly dislike arguments and fighting so I often yield and am staying like a slave in my own house. You may ask me to move away but there is NO way that I can escape this situation. There is just one way now that I see which is to face it … Can you PLEASE PLEASE tell me Deepak how can I remain calm and not be extremely hurt by the daily bad and rude behaviour of this person.