Finding true self-esteem

In trying to come to some peace with myself, I really need to ask you for some advice. I have been brought up in a moderately religious family but I then married a man who does not believe in God as we knew it. He is a good honest  man who would not harm a fly. I found some merit in his ideas. But I am confused with life as we were indoctrinated with old systems . My dilemma comes in when people who constantly pray at temples can have such prejudices and they can be so respected merely because they pray and are seen as religious people. I do not receive respect as I do not go to temple , I believe I just need to be a good human. I do my service , I have a lovely family but it seems I am still looking for something. Possibly most of all respect from people who practice those prejudices , the very people who believe I am not good enough. It is a funny thing. I want to get out of this thinking please please.I was exposed to a lot of prejudices due to the caste system and that even now bothers me. People in this town still practice those prejudices , how do I deal with the prejudices?

What I would like is a guide for living . As your web page says I need to possibly have a balance in my Mental Physical, spiritual self. How do I draw self value and worth from my own essence?

Wanting to Serve

I am 25 year young man. I am married to a great woman that always supports me and is  my backbone, We both want to do something big , we feels like we have come in this world to do great things , we just want to give back so much, sometime I want to serve people as much I can and more, Please advice me to reach to my greatest potential, How can I find my own path and bless this universe with my greatest blessing that I have received from universe.

Recognizing Evil

Do you believe in the “law of Recognizing evil” as stated in Andrew Harvey’s new book called The Hope? I wrote to Andrew Harvey about that chapter and thought he was referring more to discernment. He responded to my email and stated that he did not believe that evil was a no thing, which he obviously believes it is something. He spoke of the alchemy of good and evil which does not involve duality, which to my understanding is a subtle but powerful illusion that keeps one away from understanding the purity of consciousness itself, First Cause is a pure eternal reality, beyond cause and effect …I noticed you had endorsed that book, which is why I purchased it and I wanted to ask you your thoughts on that chapter? To refer to “recognizing evil” as a law is something I am not understanding. How would you explain this, as I have a group of individuals in a book study right now who Don’t understand this idea of recognizing evil as a law. Other then this particular chapter his book is filled with thoughtful inspirations and perhaps some good active ideas.

Finding the right job

I have been trying to find a job that I enjoy and feels right. I feel like I need to do something creative but all the careers I have ever had seem to be draining and boring. I have always been quite intuitive and sensitive to my gut feelings but I don’t seem to be guided to that thing that makes me say ” this is it! this is what I’m meant to be doing.” If you can give me some advise it would be appreciated.

The Law of Detachment and the Law of Intention

I recently read your book “The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success”. The first part of the fifth law (The Law of Intention and Desire) describes intention as desire without attachment to the outcome, so that when u combine it with detachment your intent is for the future and attention is in the present (present moment awareness).

In the second part there is a mention of one point intention which tells us to focus on the intended outcome. So do we have to detach or focus on the outcome? Are focusing on the outcome and attachment (to the outcome) two different things?
What is the difference between these two? Detachment from the outcome and yet focusing on the intended outcome? Do we have to relate it with The Law of Detachment?