I have been in an emotional roller coaster since last year. I found out my husband’s unfaithfulness and lies. I decided not to leave the relationship just because of this but I have tried to forgive everything he did to me. Everyday I ask Jesus to help me live my life and forget all the pain he caused me. I really want to stay in this marriage and trust him but I am torn apart. I have no peace of mind, no happiness whatsoever. I asked myself if I leave him will he find happiness and will I too? I see that he is meeting me halfway during this effort of reconciliation. How do I give fully trust this man? Whenever I leave for work, my toxic thoughts of him possibly sneaking around again poisons my mind. I want to stop and love myself. Help me Dr. Chopra. God bless.

I have read a quote from you stating that people come into our lives for a reason and for our own evolution.  I totally believe this to be true. I have been married for 12 years and recently met someone else that I fell in love with.  I did not have an affair with this person because I felt it was important to see what feelings I had in my current relationship especially since I have two small children.  I have been trying to discern if the purpose of the other person coming into my life is for me to reconnect with my spouse or to be with this other person later.

I am grieving the loss of the relationship with the other person since I ended our friendship/relationship.  I have shared with a couple of friends and a clergy member about this other relationship and they all seem to want to dispel my belief that soul mates exist.  I am feeling the pain of the loss of the relationship but I feel I am also grieving the loss of my belief that soul mates exist.
My question is do soul mates exist and how can I discern the purpose of this person coming into my life?

In trying to come to some peace with myself, I really need to ask you for some advice. I have been brought up in a moderately religious family but I then married a man who does not believe in God as we knew it. He is a good honest  man who would not harm a fly. I found some merit in his ideas. But I am confused with life as we were indoctrinated with old systems . My dilemma comes in when people who constantly pray at temples can have such prejudices and they can be so respected merely because they pray and are seen as religious people. I do not receive respect as I do not go to temple , I believe I just need to be a good human. I do my service , I have a lovely family but it seems I am still looking for something. Possibly most of all respect from people who practice those prejudices , the very people who believe I am not good enough. It is a funny thing. I want to get out of this thinking please please.I was exposed to a lot of prejudices due to the caste system and that even now bothers me. People in this town still practice those prejudices , how do I deal with the prejudices?

What I would like is a guide for living . As your web page says I need to possibly have a balance in my Mental Physical, spiritual self. How do I draw self value and worth from my own essence?

I am 25 year young man. I am married to a great woman that always supports me and is  my backbone, We both want to do something big , we feels like we have come in this world to do great things , we just want to give back so much, sometime I want to serve people as much I can and more, Please advice me to reach to my greatest potential, How can I find my own path and bless this universe with my greatest blessing that I have received from universe.

Do you believe in the “law of Recognizing evil” as stated in Andrew Harvey’s new book called The Hope? I wrote to Andrew Harvey about that chapter and thought he was referring more to discernment. He responded to my email and stated that he did not believe that evil was a no thing, which he obviously believes it is something. He spoke of the alchemy of good and evil which does not involve duality, which to my understanding is a subtle but powerful illusion that keeps one away from understanding the purity of consciousness itself, First Cause is a pure eternal reality, beyond cause and effect …I noticed you had endorsed that book, which is why I purchased it and I wanted to ask you your thoughts on that chapter? To refer to “recognizing evil” as a law is something I am not understanding. How would you explain this, as I have a group of individuals in a book study right now who Don’t understand this idea of recognizing evil as a law. Other then this particular chapter his book is filled with thoughtful inspirations and perhaps some good active ideas.