I am very confused and disoriented about how my life is unfolding. I have always been a very Strong and Balanced before even though I had lots of hurdles and problems in life. But recently there have been a lot of Changes in my emotional relationships and I am unable to cope with the Change. The Change has also made me reflect on my life and its priorities. Like I have a young Daughter, 6 years old, My husband who is going through a lot of struggling phase in his Life with all his relationships and Career (which also includes me) and my job (which currently is our only support) that too is not emotionally satisfying and stable…..
I have never been materialistic and I never regard money in achievements and success so even though my job is the sole source of our family support I have to force myself to continue it even though I don’t relish it emotionally and spiritually……….I have a strong urge to change my field and be of more use to the society and the world and community….how do I balance my spiritual need in the current situation. Please Help me.

I am battling to fully understand the difference between my true nature desires and fantasy.
If nature wants us to have all abundance and wishes to fill each of our desires, how does the fantasy nature of a desire separate it from this state?
For me fantasy is a desire removed of all limits and boundaries, a wish that envisages no fear. So then why would this fantasy not be deserving of manifestation?
I am confused as to the limit of which needs and desires are attainable and which are not?

I would greatly appreciate your insight to help me better understand the topic.

If everything is one, and if other people in my surroundings are myself in a projected form (or we all are projected forms of the same consciousness), does that mean that if I heal what I call myself, I also help others heal (since what I call myself is a projected part of a common consciousness?
What I mean is not healing of others only because we´re nicer and easier as persons on an outer level when we heal, but on an inner level. That if I heal a part of my soul, also the persons in my world heals since our souls are connected?

I am trapped in a toxic marriage. I’ve tried everything possible to co-exist with my mate but when I am with him I feel dead. My problem is that I am dependent on him financially. I have had cancer and a 3 month hospital stay for depression. Most of the time I feel positive about leaving this awful relationship behind and am filled with hope and ideas for the future – then fear overtakes me and I become confused and ambivalent. My greatest fear about leaving is that I will not be financially secure and that I will never be able to obtain health insurance. I have a history of trauma and anxiety. My sense of self is very weak. I really want to embrace uncertainty – can you give me a push?

I have recently made some major changes in my life. My old job came to an end so I thought what better time to start. I decided to follow my heart and do what I feel inside. I’ve also made a commitment to try and deal with fear once and for all. On top of all this I’ve made a commitment to grow spiritually and try to better myself as a person (at least to the best of my abilities).

This change has been a jarring one however as things seemed to constantly go against me. As I went full speed ahead with what my heart told me I was here for… I fell as if I jumped off a perfectly good ship into the middle of the ocean. I know what’s right for me, I know what I should do…. but I can’t help but wonder sometimes aloud “what the heck have I gotten myself into?” I sometimes burst out laughing about this, which I don’t know how to interpret, as a stress reaction or as losing it. How do I keep it all together in times like these?